“It is my considered opinion that the hairdresser is the most influential person in any community. When the public goes to a hairdresser, something happens to them. They feel safe, they relax. The hairdresser knows what their skin is like under the makeup, they know their age, they don’t have to keep up any kind of pretense. People tell a hairdresser things they wouldn’t dare confess to a priest and they are open about matters they’d try to conceal from a doctor. When people place their secret lives in the hairdresser’s hands, the hairdresser gains an authority few other people attain. I have heard hairdressers quoted with complete conviction on art, literature, politics, economics, child care and morals. I tell you that a clever, thoughtful, ambitious hairdresser wields a power beyond comprehension of most people.” -John Steinbeck

It’s time to stop the self-hate struggle and get your SHINE back!

Who’s the one person you share ALLLLLL of your truth with? Think about it…

It’s not you. It’s not your therapist. It’s not your partner. It’s not your kids. (Maybe your pets!)

It’s your hairdresser.

Or at least in my case, it is…

I happen to be the hairdresser in this story and have spent over a decade behind the chair listening to women spill their guts and open up about how they truly feel about themselves. 

Trust me. It’s not always pretty in the hair salon. 🙂

I’ve learned from listening to thousands of women that they don’t feel confident, passionate, or capable of actually doing what they love for a living.

And I’m here to tell you that is total bullshit.

You can achieve ANYTHING you put your mind to. (You know what I’m talkin’ about!)

When you DECIDE.

When you’re CLEAR on what you want.

You go after it and you MAKE IT HAPPEN.

I see so much sparkle in every woman I encounter buried beneath the beliefs and fears that they aren’t good enough or smart enough or qualified enough to go after their dreams.

I was one of those women. 

Although I was passionately going after my dreams of being a hairdresser, I knew something felt off. 

Something was missing…

My self-love. My self-care. My self-worth. 

I had to take a cold hard look at my beliefs that were holding me back from being the BEST ME I knew I was inside.

It took me 10 years to uncover my inner sparkle. 

Ups. Downs. Sometimes backward. Pity parties and all. 

I struggled with believing that I was meant to share my love, light, and sparkle magic with the world. 

Today, I finally believe in my own beauty.

I trust my inner voice.

I accept that life’s challenges come with struggles.

The journey of self-discovery takes faith in your highest good, willingness to let go, and courage to BE YOURSELF. 

I know that if you’re reading this message, you’re probably feeling that way too. 

I came across the term “Lightworker” and somewhere in my soul, it resonated.

A Lightworker is someone to chose to help heal the world from fear and restore LOVE and that’s exactly why I was guided to create Shine School® to empower other Lightworkers to overcome their fear and confidently share their gifts with the world.

 

 

I share EVERYTHING that encouraged my entire soul awakening to love who I am so I can do my life’s great work with you in Shine School® to help you through your transformation.

The first step to making your dream happen is BELIEVING in your ability to manifest them.

I want to show you how to shed your fear, confidently believe in yourself so you can manifest the life you REALLY want that involves your purpose and your passion.

There is no magic pill for self-love so I created Shine School.

If you’re ready for an inner transformation so you can shed your past pain and move forward freely, I invite you to join me and thousands of other women on the rise to SHINE!

I will be walking you through your awakening every step of the way and you’ll have the support of my #SHINETRIBE Sisterhood to hold you accountable.

If your soul is calling out for you to commit to this self-love journey, you can ENROLL NOW!

See you in Shine School. xo

2 Comments on How I got my SHINE back after 10 years of self-hate!

  1. I would love love to do shine school so badly! but I’m broke . Otherwise I would sign up in a heart beat. I’m dying just dying for someone to talk to about everything, there are things that I know I can’t share with a doctor or therapist or others, because I know they will judge me and not really fully understand what exactly I am going through. They don’t understand the body, soul, connection. They don’t understand past lives, I strongly believe that the recent current events that have occurred within the past two years are to do with past life experiences. I believe in soul mates and twin flames. I believe that people cross our paths for a reason. There is so much out there such as paranormal forces beyond our control sometimes. It is hard to navigate through this storm of life. I do believe in happiness! and I hope to truly gain that self confidence and happiness back to where I was 8 years ago. I have so so much that I am dying to share I have been keeping these emotions secret hiding my true beliefs and thoughts away from the fear of being judged. It is comforting to know that I am not alone and that I can truly share my deepest desires within my soul with someone who I know will not judge me.

    • I’m so glad we’ve crossed paths Tallie! I think surrounding yourself with the women at the Goddess Gathering is going to help you connect on a soul level to women who feel the same way you do! I think you would also really enjoy watching The Elevated Life videos my hubby Chris and I share every Friday. We have loads of them saved to YouTube if you search #theelevatedlife There is SOOOO much juicy content in those videos that will help you tap into these deeper areas of your soul. xoxo

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