“Happily ever after is not a fairy tale. It’s a choice.” —Fawn Weaver

Have you ever wondered what it takes to build a lasting, loving relationship?

As Chris and I approach our ten-year wedding anniversary, we’re reflecting on our journey as a couple and sharing our tips on how to build a relationship filled with intimacy, joy, laughter, and pleasure.

In this episode of The Elevated Life®, we’re sharing The Secrets of Our Lasting Relationship. If you want a partner by your side as you go after your wild and crazy dreams, this episode is for you!

Tune in to learn:

💜 The evolution of our relationship over the past ten years (including how my vision for our anniversary has shifted over time.)

💜 Chris’ #1 tip for building a relationship that lasts

💜 How to effortlessly attract your dream partner by focusing on your own self-development

💜 The role of appreciation in a successful partnership

Highlights from this episode:

01:23 – Our plans to go to Aspen for our 10-year wedding anniversary

01:55 – How my vision for our 10-year anniversary has changed over the years

03:20 – The #1 tip for a lasting relationship

05:07 – “When you think about where you want to be, you need to picture your partner there with you.”

06:18 – The Seven and Above rule and how it applies to relationships

06:44 – What Brit’s grandmother told her was the secret to a long-lasting relationship

07:49 – “Words are only 7% of communication. It’s the attitude and underlying energy that makes you feel loved, heard, and seen.”

08:29 – Chris talks about the importance of listening versus fixing

09:00 – “We fall in love with people’s strengths, but we live with their weaknesses.”

10:15 – The backwards-ness of first dates

11:02 – Brit talks about the trap that she sees too many women get into

12:56 – “A better version of you shows up better everywhere.”

14:12 – Brit explains the meaning of The Lover’s card in tarot

15:34 – A look back at how we met on Myspace

18:07 – Chris shares the way that intimacy begins with words and thoughts

20:45 – How Chris played an important role in Brit’s business journey

21:14 – The one thing we had in common when we met